When we enter a relationship we do not think that we will one day have to look for ways of catching a cheating spouse. But for some of us this does become a reality and we need to come to terms with this blow that hits us right on the face.
There are a few ways with which you can confirm this nagging doubt and find out if you are being cheated on. Learn to notice the signs of cheating and you will have enough evidence to confront your spouse and find out firsthand about his/her erring ways.
Find the loophole…
Cheaters have to lie, to keep their secret affair a secret. In order to catch him/her you will have to train your ear to listen to each word that he/she says with a great deal of attention. Sooner or later there will be a discrepancy that will arise in his/her story.
As you learn to pay attention you will find that there are many such loopholes that will continue to creep up, especially when your spouse feels that you are not paying much attention.
When he/she lets his/her guard down, that’s the time you should begin the innocent questioning and watch him/her lose control and squirm.
Do a record check…
If you begin to quietly keep a track of your spouses’ records you will begin to notice a number of loopholes in them as well. His/her phone records will have new, strange numbers.
More often than not he/she will give you a strange explanation of the called number mostly delegating it to someone related to work. His/her credit card will also have some strange expenses listed which you will normally not be able to associate with your regular life.
Your spouse will be very evasive if you ask him/her of these charges and will tend to get annoyed and very dismissive.
Invest in a GPS device…
Spend some money and get a GPS device installed in your spouses’ car. With the help of this device you shall be easily able to know where he/she is at all times.
YOU can call him/her to find out where he/she is and it will be easy for you to tell if he/she is lying. Plan a big surprise for your spouse when you find that he/she is lying and land up where he/she actually is!
Hire a private detective…
If all of the above methods seem too difficult for you to handle you could always take the help of a private detective. For a certain amount you can get all your spouses’ activities covered and documented in a neat little folder just for your reference.